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Time was never a factor which determined how much you understood a person . It is the faith and commitment that matters.
We spend years with someone without really connecting to them and with some it is like a spark of madness the moment you start speaking with them. Similarly one bright sunny day, I walked into my Junior college auditorium where all kids had gathered to enter into the next phenomenal era of their lives. Found myself next to this cute rather petite girl and after sometime we realised we are alloted the same class. There started our friendship. Over the months when visits to each others home increased we discovered that we are infact related by blood , paternal side of the family tree. We were I think third cousins by relation. It doesnt matter but that was like a discovery of the millenium which, we were yet to enter. Pleasantly surprised because WHAT A CO-INCIDENCE
Here's where I insert a dialogue from SHERLOCK HOLMES ..I love that British accent Mr. Benedict C...
PERSON A :::And what do we say about coincidences?
PERSON LIKE ME:::::The Universe is rarely so lazy !!!
so we have to be friends dearieee
So after 15odd years we still are awesome friends . Though she stays on the other side of the planet we catch up on hellos online here and there on all these ridiculous social apps - sometimes you forget which one you have used to converse. This problem, I have minimised to a large extent. Lord God I cannot handle even the 4 to 5 apps which I use without getting a little worked up. I dont know why would you want to be connected to a person on 100 different apps. Doesn't it lose the whole emotional value or quality ? I love the internet though or what would I do without these random jokes and hellos you guys send ?? Anyway my point is with some people its like you had just met yesterday and restart your conversation from there. BOOM BOOM.
Friendship is wierd they say , You pick up a human you have met and say "Yup I like this one".and you just do stuff with them. Sometimes you meet a person and you just click, just like that - like you snap your fingers. Like you already know them and talk any random sh#t with them. If you meet such dramatic souls who enjoy the same sarcastic humour like you , can laugh at the same things, can laugh at themselves that is a bonus in life. I like to insult my friends when they act dumb and its okay that they do the same with me -- it's like the bro code. With friends you make such memories which are just yours alone. The experience was between you and them and revisiting those moments time and again becomes a stress buster. You don't have to pretend to be someone else - that is what a true friend gives you ..complete freedom to be YOU.
Friends who support you during unhappy times are not the only ones to be celebrated - I feel the ones who can applaud and empathise in your success are the ones who are more dear. They think you to be worthy of the praise you receive because of the hardwork you have put in. This to me is very important. A person who acknowledges the spirit in you for good things. They make you want to be more of the better qualities you possess. That is how you also become a better person. You need a little motivation every now and then. The best of the best people need motivation every now and then Okaaaaay and that is OKAY !!
IN TODAYS digittal WORLD what is tthe meaning of FRIENDS -- people who know the real life story and don't judge you by the happy photo albums you upload on Facebook ,Instagram or whatever social app. People with who you can sit and just be silent and feel you have had the best conversation, just by meeting and exchanging energies with them. But meeting is important - how do people who love each others vibe , not meet? How can you not struggle to catch up ? I love people who go out of their way to do this. I can't thank you'll enough. I feel so wanted because of you all. I am like if nobody loves me its OOOOOOKAY at least these retards do. It gives me happy walla song in my heart.
Some of the awesomest conversations I have had in the last 6 months are with these few people who have been featured here below ....this is a collection of some old photos ..only 3 which are a few years old where am looking really fat -thanking you in advance for pointing that out to me !!
You crazy a######s I love you all - thank you for making time for me in your world.
Sophie and Dj and Aarti and Raje Vishal - I dint have your snaps darlings. :*
Growing up with you all has been so worthwhile my time
Don't take people for granted because no matter how much they love you - They most certainly will get tired of wanting your attention.So go all out and express your love NOW WE ALWAYS THINK WE HAVE ENOUGH TIME. BUT YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOU GET HIT BY A BUS OR SWALLOWED BY GODZILLA.
THEY WILL NOT HEAR THE GREAT SPEECHES YOU RESERVED FOR THEM AT THEIR TOMBSTONES because let me state the obvious - they will be dead. On that note let me send some lovveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee to all - muwahsssssssss
long distance HUGSSSSSSSSSS
VVV Important NOTE TO SELF /others :::Be picky . Reserve your time, intensity and spirit exclusively to those who display sincerity.
P.S. Words can't really say how much I love you all , so just forget it and get lost.......LOL (LOTS OF LOVE)
Guys time to reconnect with people who matter.
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